When Rosie Lowry decided to take home Hagrid, a two-year-old Mastiff with health issues, little did she know what kind of a life journey she was embarking upon.
That journey was one of learning for both human and dog. In an effort to deal with Hagrid’s changing needs, Rosie had to venture into uncharted territory. Life with Hagrid was a rollercoaster ride, with experiences ranging from dealing with unwanted behaviour to more health issues than Rosie had thought possible! Working with vets, exploring complementary therapies, finding out more about diet, venturing into self-selection, Rosie’s journey included a foray into many of the practical issues surrounding dog guardianship. One key piece of advice leading from this: learn to question.
However, dealing with Hagrid’s physical needs of course was only one aspect: there was also the process of building a trusting relationship and overcoming emotional issues.
Even the everyday, ordinary aspects of life proved to be a challenge that Rosie had to rise to.
This book is Rosie and Hagrid’s story.
Sheila Harper B.Ed, B.A.
Testimonials
Rosie Lowry’s story about Hagrid (and other animals) is beautifully written, warm and wise. Rosie’s vast experience as a behaviourist shines throughout, and she shares a great deal of excellent advice and tips on all aspects of raising and caring for a dog. I particularly love her emphasis on observation, on taking the time to get to know your dog and allowing time for him or her to get to know you, and on the importance of giving choices which foster confidence and independence. A heartwarming book!
Lisa Tenzin-Dolma: Author and founder of International School for Canine Psychology (ISCP)
The Tale of a BIG Dog is an excellent book that complements Rosie’s previous work ‘Understanding the Silent Communication of Dogs’.
Rosie invites us to share her story as caregiver to the wonderful Hagrid with a warm and insightful narrative that leaves you feeling you knew him personally. It is a story of companionship, connection and the exploration of the emotional experience of both dogs and owner. It is just as much a cautionary tale as it is an inspirational one, and I hope it will allow more people to trust their own ‘feelings’ just as much as taking opinion from others.
Andrew Hale: Certified animal behaviourist
Using the heart-warming story of Hagrid, Rosie Lowry guides all of us, who are carers, through the day-to-day delivery of well-being to our dogs.
So much that affects our dogs’ lives is addressed in this book. Topics range from their relationships with us, our families, other dogs, other animals and, importantly, vets.
Health, food and the right exercise are of vital importance and Rosie’s holistic approach to these topics explains clearly not only ‘the how’, but crucially ‘the why’.
In a world where so many human to dog relationships are based on command and control, Rosie’s emphasis is on building a dog’s confidence through a partnership, where each learns to make appropriate choices.
We expect our dogs to live comfortably in our environment, an alien environment and not the one that nature prescribed for them. This presents so many challenges that we, as carers, have responsibility to help them overcome in a way that reduces their stress, recognises their natural abilities, and enriches their lives.
The Tale of a BIG Dog, follows on seamlessly from Rosie Lowry’s first book, Understanding the Silent Communication of Dogs. It is full of ideas and inspiration giving us the confidence to consider a range of insightful approaches to improve our dogs’ lives.
Jeremy Basset: Colleague
Further reading
Books
- Understanding the silent communication of dogs (2nd edition, 2017) by Rosie Lowry in association with Marilyn Aspinall
The book can be found on my website and purchased there, or from Amazon. - Turid Rugaas. On talking terms with dogs: Calming signals
Understanding canine communication is paramount to a relationship with any dog. - Caroline Ingraham: Help your dog heal itself
- Xandria Williams: From stress to success
- Patrick Holford: Hidden food allergies
- Patrick Holford: Food is better medicine than drugs
- Anne-Lise Miller: Too young to grow old
- Cindy Engle: Wild health
- Dr Natasha Campbell-McBride: Gut and pyschology syndrome
- Dan Hughes
- Daniel I. Siegel, MD
- Dr. Sue Gerhardt
Online resources
- Rebekah Hudson
- Where science and dogs meet
There are some scientific studies at the end of this article. - Lives of Streeties
An observational study of Indian street dogs. - The Science Dog
I agree with Linda Case about vets. - Veg Vet
Some positive changes are beginning to happen at a veterinary clinic in New York, America, who actively encourage carers to stay with their pets during procedures. - Amber Batson
Vet Amber Batson makes changes for dogs. - Kama Brown - IAABC Journal
Should we reconsider the relevance of train sit? - Robert Sapolski stress lectures
Especially useful in understanding stress in humans and much of this can be applicable to understanding dogs and how their lives might be affected. - Science Direct
Recognition of aggressive and anxious behaviors in canines by a group of Chilean veterinarians. - Science Daily
Treats might mask animal intelligence. - The MAD museum
Gadget museum in Stratford Upon-Avon. - Caroline Ingraham: Zoopharmacognosy
- The Border Collie Trust - where Pogo came from
We always try to get our dogs from Rescue Centres. Pogo came from the Border Collie Trust, but after having her DNA tested, we found she wasn’t actually a border collie!
References
- Rialland, P., Bichot, S., Moreau, M. et al.
Clinical validity of outcome pain measures in naturally occurring canine osteoarthritis. BMC Vet Res 8, 162. - Kristin D. Neff, Ya-Ping Hsieh and Kullaya Dejitterat
Self-compassion, Achievement Goals, and Coping with Academic Failure, Self and Identity, 4:3, 263-287, DOI: 10.1080/13576500444000317.
VIPs and colleagues
- Sheila Harper and Winny Boerman courses come highly recommended
Also look out for their forthcoming book: “Beyond Behaviour”. - Jean Gough
A Dog Behaviour Advisor from Walsall (Midlands) who is so knowledgeable about dogs, and her approach is gentle and empathetic: just what all dogs need. - Sally Hopkins
Dog Games harnesses were employed for Hagrid and I use them for all dogs in my care because of the soft, evenly distributed support. A luxurious item chosen for the comfort they offer dogs. - Rosee Riggs
German and English website: good-dog-practice.eu. - Susanne Lehr
- Lisa Tenzin-Dolma
Author and founder of International School for Canine Psychology (ISCP). - Martha Knowles
A fantastic source of information for anyone wanting to learn more about the silent communication of dogs. Martha explains so well how each communication signal is used in a variety of situations: facebook.com/silentcanineconversations. - Dawn Allen at Four Positive Paws
- Winkie Spiers
- Pat White
- Pennie Clayton
- Julia Robertson
Galen Therapy. - Ann and Lyn Lowe
- Andrew Hale
Certified animal behaviourist. - Caroline Lewis
Qualified dog behaviourist specialising in rescue and deaf dogs.
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